So, it's fair to say that Kate is kind of a perfectionist ("Who me?" she would say), and ever since she found out about this blog, she has insisted that, if I'm going to do this, I'm going to do it right. That entails mostly making sure to post about something at least every other day. It also involves doing the legwork of drawing traffic to the blog (can't well be an exhibitionist if nobody's looking) by commenting on similar blogs. And it also involves spending several hours a night trolling other sex blogs and porn sites.
Keeping up on this blog has turned out to be a lot more work that I initially imagined. Searching out other blogs to see what sort of things they post about and spreading the word about our blog. Scouting out pornographic pictures to add to our "Steamy Pics" tumblr feed. Having extra and more adventurous sex in order to generate more material to write about. It's exhausting.
I can't believe I'm complaining about this, really. I mean, Kate and I are having more sex than usual, which is great. I'm spending long hours reading spicy stories about other couples that share their sex lives online. I'm looking at a myriad of porn sites (mostly other tumblr feeds) not only with the approval and encouragement of my wife, but often while sitting in the same room with her. Most guys, even if their wives don't mind them looking at porn, generally do so in relative secrecy (or so I assume).
So, yes, I'm complaining that I'm having lots of sex, reading steamy stories, and looking at lots of porn, because it's hard work. Really, I can't think of a better problem to have. I love you, Kate!